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Dating a nonchristian man

Insist that he get professional help and walk away. Marriage must be built on a foundation of trust. If He can do it for my daughters, He can do it for you. The scales are uneven and liable to tip.

If you marry a guy who was sleeping around before your wedding, you can be sure he will be sleeping around after your wedding. This will give them an unfair advantage in a relationship as they can break certain rules that you can't - and you may feel pressured to break them to hold their interest. This may or may not worry you but consider the fact that the bible says the man should be the spiritual leader in a relationship.

If the guy is not a born-again Christian, scratch him off your list. You can visit different churches but this is a very inefficient way to meet someone. In a romantic relationship it may be difficult to escape a relationship with an unbeliever if it turns out to be wrong.

He stayed home all day and played video games while his professional wife worked and paid all the bills. Every other relationship is secondary, and not to be put before our Lord, God.

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Lee Grady is the former editor of Charisma and the director of the Mordecai Project themordecaiproject. To make things trickier still, some non-Christians have higher morals, and are more faithful and understanding than their fellow Christians. He has a problem, and if you marry him you will have to navigate his minefield every day to avoid triggering another outburst. In the end it distracts from the real meaning of Christian life.