That would be my biggest worry

Dating your brother in law's brother

He is remarried and has a daughter now. My inlaws are very wealthy, yet every time I call them, they make a point of telling me that they have no money.

My exhusband was slightly bitter that their father had nothing to do with him. As for his brother in law, I met him for the first time about a year before me and his brother got married. Well, as me and my ex were going through our divorce his brother would hang out with me and we were just good friends.

The remaining brother married his sister inlaw. Our divorce was fairly pleasant and went really smoothly. Replies are closed for this discussion.

My ex bil even said

Yes, death brings out both the best and worst in people. It has been a year and a half, and while they are all polite to me, well, my F-I-L and his wife are, my S-I-L won't speak to me, I know that they just view me as some sort of emotional obligation. However, most of the ones I've seen is where the female is having an affair with her current brother in law. As far as monetary help, I have always known that neither the in-laws or my own family could or would help me.

One of the aunts

My exhusband and bil have the same dad - different moms. He has mentioned from time to time about us dating. We were married for the last year and a half of that time. When I was talking to my ex bil awhile back he said that him and his brother basically have no relationship.

One of the aunts passed away, then one of the brothers. My ex bil even said that my ex hubby only has people in his life when it's good for him.

That would be my biggest worry. He always says there is nothing wrong with it but I'm stubborn. My brother has not made any hints for money, thank goodness. In fact, all three of my sisters have dropped major hints about needing money as they have been financial disasters all of their lives. My husband and I loved each other and he was my family even though his mothers and brothers apparently did not get this.